My wife passed away 4 years ago. I was 40. The 48 truck that's in my profile picture is still registered as hers. She was working on a tuesday, developed pneumonia, and died 3 days later. She was an ICU nurse. I work the ER in Radiology. She was wonderful, and always pretended to understand my insane love of cars. She used to tell me "I'm doing exactly what I'm suspose to be doing...nursing". Funny, cuz one of her hobbies was worrying about how I was gonna kill myself. I drive to fast, I race to much, I eat to much, I work around radiation, etc.etc... who knew. I've always lived my life like I would live forever,...less to think about. I know its not true, but it still works for me.
I'm really enjoying reading the wisdom on this thread.
When I'm joking with the kids, I like to say "If I die racing, I'll be happy....If I die commuting to work, I'll be p*ssed"
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