Chin up! We understand the need to vent, it helps. Life happens, can't do much about that, but you have options to get your car up and running. Silver lining to the over-the-road dark cloud is that putting your car in a long queue may not be a bad option, since you're out on the road a lot. That also gives you the opportunity to seek out a decent shop, which are indeed far and few in between. I had to wait almost a year to get our Dodge's radiator restored! It would have been longer if I'd gone out of State. Unknown who you drive for, but mayhaps you have backhaul (that's what the truckers up here call it) opportunities to get either the whole car, or just the engine, to a shop and back. I don't know of any shops that work on older engines that don't have a waiting list, because there are many more that can't or won't do that work, for whatever reason. These things can take a while, you've got a nice car and plans for how you want to enjoy it, don't lose hope.