1) I think the Spitfire head means it's a 251 or a 265 displacement. Pistons 40 over, rod and main bearings 10 over.
2) New oil, points, plugs, rotor, condensor, dist. cap, maybe plug wires. Any old gas in the tank is very suspect, so you may want to run a temporary fuel line into a gas can. A lot of guys will pull the oil pan to assess the condition of the bottom end, and remove the sludge left by antique oil.
3) Aside from scraping off the gunk and looking for serial numbers, most rear axles have a unique shape. Yours has probably been replaced with a later model for a more highway-friendly gear ratio. There's lots of info online. It may not even be Mopar.
4) The stainless grills go for a premium price, but the top bar is the easiest to find. I have an extra one for my B1C. I can't remember if it has any dings, but I'll look and let you know.