Thanks for everyone's help - for future forum searchers, here's what worked for me. The rear brake lines on my '41 wagon are 1/4" tubing. The inverted flare/double flare fittings are all 7/16-24, both out of the rear axle block and going to the rear wheel cylinders. However, the rear wheel cylinders have 3/8-24 female threads in them (for a 3/16" tubing) - you need a brass adapter at each rear wheel cylinder so the larger 1/4" tubing will plug into them.
Advanced Auto, and probably all the parts stores sell an adapter that has 3/8-24 flare male on one end and 7/16-24 female on the other end to accept the brake line. We didn't even need a copper washer at the wheel cylinders, because the adapter bottoms out nicely and tightly. After some test driving, we could always add a copper washer if the brass isn't sealing at the wheel cylinder.
I eventually got nicop lines as @Tired iron suggested. The nicop lines are crazy easy to work with, easy to bend, easy to flare, and are forgiving -even if the flare isn't perfect the material will mash together and seal.
Thanks!