Mark, greetings from another Mark in central mass. Sorry to hear about your loss. I've gone through this myself and still don't feel quite right nearly 21 years later. Truly I believe a piece of yourself passes in times like that. But 21 years have taught me that life goes on and you do fill the void somehow, but it's never quite like it was before. Whereabouts in mass where you from? I see from your profile you're in Orono now. I've got 100 acres of pristine wilderness due west from you in North New Portland, near Kingfield/Sugarloaf Mt. Been thinking of driving my 48 up there one of these fall weekends to do some leaf peeping.
Well, I guess there's very little to be said that will truly comfort you, but hope you accept a wish that your pain leaves quickly and you find comfort in your memories of Wes. I'm sure he'll be at your right shoulder whenever you're working on your car.
- Mark